Anger can be a very dangerous emotion. It literally leads to sabotage on all levels. Either we kill relationships by responding out of inappropriate anger or we slowly kill ourselves by holding it in. Our physical body and the functioning of our organs are directly linked to our emotions. We have seven energy centers called “chakras” that explain this process.
1. Root Chakra – The first chakra relates to feeling grounded, stable, and attuned to basic survival. Feelings of fear, uncertainty, and being an outsider can cause blockages in this area. Being over-stimulated can lead to imbalance in the adrenals and kidneys.
2. Sacral Chakra – The second chakra governs our sexuality, intimacy, and creativity. Shutting down or experiencing trauma in these areas can lead to blockages in your reproductive system, menstrual cycles, or the ability to conceive.
3. Naval Chakra – The third chakra is about self-confidence, self-esteem and issues of anger. When you are feeling weak and insecure, you may experience digestive problems, gall stones, or even an ulcer.
4. Heart Chakra – The fourth chakra is about being compassionate, friendly, and warm. It governs intuition and love. When you are closed here, you can be blocked in your heart, chest, and breasts. Have you ever heard of an elderly person who died of a broken heart because they lost their spouse? It’s possible…
5. Throat Chakra – This fifth chakra is connected to expressing yourself. When you are too shy or don’t say what you need to, you may experience neck, throat, and thyroid problems.
6. Third Eye Chakra – The sixth chakra is related to our intuitive nature. When you are meditating, you connect to this chakra by closing your eyes and focusing on this area. Third eye chakra is connected to the pituitary gland, eyes, head, and lower brain. When someone is deficient or blocked, they are unable to visualize or listen to their intuition.
7. Crown Chakra – The seventh chakra is about wisdom; if you are activated here, you are very aware spiritually. The crown chakra is connected to the pineal gland and upper brain. When you’re deficient in this area, you may be skeptical, cynical, apathetic, and much more connected to the material world over the spiritual realm.
Illness often comes from not dealing with our emotions properly. This is literally when the body is in “dis-ease.” That’s why you hear about people making miraculous recoveries when they watch funny movies, say positive affirmations, or visualize good health. You can often see what’s happening in someone’s life just by looking at them. Perhaps someone has postural defects and they’re hunched over because they are carrying a heavy burden. Maybe they are prematurely graying or they are aging much more quickly than they should be. Do they carry extra weight to hide from the world? Or do they feel frail and depressed which causes them to be extremely underweight? When I am working with a new client, my first question isn’t, “What do you eat every day?” My first question is, “Are you happy?”
Who wants to live life with enemies, feeling angry, depressed or blaming someone else for your problems? It’s much better to release those emotions because they will never serve you. You’re not foolish or naïve to be able to forgive or to let yourself be happy. As difficult as it is- letting go with an open heart can be the best medicine for a long life.